Breaking the silence

 Silence is often seen as a sign of strength, patience, or endurance. But there are times when silence becomes a burden, trapping us in situations that harm us. Breaking the silence is not just about speaking up—it’s about reclaiming our voice, power, and freedom. It’s about choosing to no longer hide our pain, fears, or struggles and finding the courage to tell our stories.

    Many women suffer in silence, whether it is from domestic violence, workplace harassment, or societal expectations. They are told to endure, to adjust, and to not cause trouble. This silence isn’t a choice for them—it’s forced upon them by fear of judgment, rejection, or retaliation. But this silence comes at a cost. It takes away their confidence, their dreams, and sometimes even their lives. 

   One inspiring example of breaking the silence is the story of one of our own university teacher. She is known as a kind and strong individual who made a significant impact on her students’ lives. But behind her warm smile was a story of pain and courage. For months,she silently endured domestic violence in her marriage. Her husband controlled her , insulted her, and even physically hurt her. 

  One day, she decided she couldn’t live in fear anymore. After one particularly abusive incident and  with her sister's support, she sought help, filed a complaint, and left her abusive husband. It wasn’t an easy journey—she had to rebuild her life from scratch while facing societal judgment. But Her strength and determination helped her overcome the odds. Today, she is free from the abuse and uses her story to inspire and empower others to speak up. Her courage reminds us that breaking the silence is the first step to reclaiming one’s life. 

 For her,  Breaking the silence is not easy. There is fear, hesitation, and uncertainty. But the moment a woman decides to speak up, she begins to take control of her life. It could be as simple as confiding in a trusted friend, reaching out to an organization for help, or raising her voice against injustice. Every small step matters.  

  When women break their silence, they inspire others to do the same. Their courage creates a ripple effect, showing others that they, too, can stand up for themselves. It is not just about one person—it is about creating a world where every woman feels safe to speak and to demand justice.   

 We all have a role to play in this. Listening without judgment, offering support, and standing by those who choose to speak up are ways we can help. Instead of silencing women with phrases like “It’s not a big deal” or “What will people say?” we need to create an environment where they feel heard and valued.    

Breaking the silence is not just a personal act—it is a powerful statement against oppression and inequality. It is a way of saying, 

“I will no longer accept what hurts me.”

 It is a call for change, for respect, and for a life free of fear. Let us all encourage and support those who are ready to break their silence, and let us remind them that their voice matters. Their stories matter. They matter.Her story is reminder that even in the darkest moments, there is hope—and that breaking the silence can lead to freedom, , and a brighter future.

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  1. Fakhra Jamil6 March 2025 at 09:17

    Loved your response to an incident of domestic abuse.

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